Maximus Rex
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What will a relationship give you what you presently don't have, other than sex?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Doesnt't want to date
- Thread starter OlympicTim
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The answer to this question, if reflected on, will possibly reveal holes in your personality that
long to be filled.
It can often be more productive and fulfilling to carry out this garden work oneself. Rather than
recruit an external gardner who may leave without giving appropriate notice.
OlympicTim
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Dating her now, been ****ing her too.
Its only been a week and Im already having second thoughts about this one.
Its only been a week and Im already having second thoughts about this one.
wifehunter
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my own personal opinions aside...
It make sense... why have a relationship, if you're already knocking boots, as it were?
All that "get your hands dirty" real relationship stuff can get in the way of the pure animalistic nature of casual sex.
Is it just shallow labels, or something else?
Or maybe, having a relationship and getting to know someone = better sex?
Dhoulmagus
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It's all fun and games until the girl starts withholding sex, demanding more date nights, playing mind games, and much more.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
OlympicTim
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Id like to get married someday.
Many guys on here don't agree with that which is fine.
Only way for me to do that is LTR's.
Dhoulmagus
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ewwww
OlympicTim
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This is one of the reasons I actually love this fourm.
Great place for men who are looking to improve themselves can come and have their belives challenged
wifehunter
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wifehunter
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You know it!!!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
MrWood
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the OP is not in a "Western culture", you can tell this from the first post.
the culture he is in happens to be, for the most part, has no resemblance to western dating culture.
did you guys not catch this by his phrasing and frame?
the culture he is in happens to be, for the most part, has no resemblance to western dating culture.
did you guys not catch this by his phrasing and frame?
Maximus Rex
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So you want enter a LTR with a woman that you didn't even know on New Year's Day. Fascinating. Do you even know the qualities you want in a woman to even consider entering into a LTR with her, and more importantly, why should a woman want to enter into a long term relationship with you?
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Dhoulmagus
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I did notice he was 19
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He just wants sex and doesnt realize it. Everybody has brainwashed him to thinking he needs to hang with this chick to get sex and a relationship. Hes not even thinking about her qualities except that shes hot and "maybe" nice and getting attention. Daily texting and talking has sunk your battleship. You're an emotional tampon at the moment. She wants to have sex and talks about it, but doesn't tell you to come over??