Maximus Rex
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What will a relationship give you what you presently don't have, other than sex?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Doesnt't want to date
- Thread starter OlympicTim
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The answer to this question, if reflected on, will possibly reveal holes in your personality that
long to be filled.
It can often be more productive and fulfilling to carry out this garden work oneself. Rather than
recruit an external gardner who may leave without giving appropriate notice.
OlympicTim
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Dating her now, been ****ing her too.
Its only been a week and Im already having second thoughts about this one.
Its only been a week and Im already having second thoughts about this one.
wifehunter
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my own personal opinions aside...
It make sense... why have a relationship, if you're already knocking boots, as it were?
All that "get your hands dirty" real relationship stuff can get in the way of the pure animalistic nature of casual sex.
Is it just shallow labels, or something else?
Or maybe, having a relationship and getting to know someone = better sex?
Dhoulmagus
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It's all fun and games until the girl starts withholding sex, demanding more date nights, playing mind games, and much more.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
OlympicTim
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Id like to get married someday.
Many guys on here don't agree with that which is fine.
Only way for me to do that is LTR's.
Dhoulmagus
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ewwww
OlympicTim
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This is one of the reasons I actually love this fourm.
Great place for men who are looking to improve themselves can come and have their belives challenged
wifehunter
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wifehunter
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You know it!!!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MrWood
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the OP is not in a "Western culture", you can tell this from the first post.
the culture he is in happens to be, for the most part, has no resemblance to western dating culture.
did you guys not catch this by his phrasing and frame?
the culture he is in happens to be, for the most part, has no resemblance to western dating culture.
did you guys not catch this by his phrasing and frame?
Maximus Rex
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So you want enter a LTR with a woman that you didn't even know on New Year's Day. Fascinating. Do you even know the qualities you want in a woman to even consider entering into a LTR with her, and more importantly, why should a woman want to enter into a long term relationship with you?
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Dhoulmagus
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I did notice he was 19
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He just wants sex and doesnt realize it. Everybody has brainwashed him to thinking he needs to hang with this chick to get sex and a relationship. Hes not even thinking about her qualities except that shes hot and "maybe" nice and getting attention. Daily texting and talking has sunk your battleship. You're an emotional tampon at the moment. She wants to have sex and talks about it, but doesn't tell you to come over??