Maximus Rex
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What will a relationship give you what you presently don't have, other than sex?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Doesnt't want to date
- Thread starter OlympicTim
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The answer to this question, if reflected on, will possibly reveal holes in your personality that
long to be filled.
It can often be more productive and fulfilling to carry out this garden work oneself. Rather than
recruit an external gardner who may leave without giving appropriate notice.
OlympicTim
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Dating her now, been ****ing her too.
Its only been a week and Im already having second thoughts about this one.
Its only been a week and Im already having second thoughts about this one.
wifehunter
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my own personal opinions aside...
It make sense... why have a relationship, if you're already knocking boots, as it were?
All that "get your hands dirty" real relationship stuff can get in the way of the pure animalistic nature of casual sex.
Is it just shallow labels, or something else?
Or maybe, having a relationship and getting to know someone = better sex?
Dhoulmagus
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It's all fun and games until the girl starts withholding sex, demanding more date nights, playing mind games, and much more.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
OlympicTim
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Id like to get married someday.
Many guys on here don't agree with that which is fine.
Only way for me to do that is LTR's.
Dhoulmagus
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ewwww
OlympicTim
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This is one of the reasons I actually love this fourm.
Great place for men who are looking to improve themselves can come and have their belives challenged
wifehunter
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wifehunter
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You know it!!!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MrWood
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the OP is not in a "Western culture", you can tell this from the first post.
the culture he is in happens to be, for the most part, has no resemblance to western dating culture.
did you guys not catch this by his phrasing and frame?
the culture he is in happens to be, for the most part, has no resemblance to western dating culture.
did you guys not catch this by his phrasing and frame?
Maximus Rex
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So you want enter a LTR with a woman that you didn't even know on New Year's Day. Fascinating. Do you even know the qualities you want in a woman to even consider entering into a LTR with her, and more importantly, why should a woman want to enter into a long term relationship with you?
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Dhoulmagus
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I did notice he was 19
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He just wants sex and doesnt realize it. Everybody has brainwashed him to thinking he needs to hang with this chick to get sex and a relationship. Hes not even thinking about her qualities except that shes hot and "maybe" nice and getting attention. Daily texting and talking has sunk your battleship. You're an emotional tampon at the moment. She wants to have sex and talks about it, but doesn't tell you to come over??