Maximus Rex
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What will a relationship give you what you presently don't have, other than sex?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Doesnt't want to date
- Thread starter OlympicTim
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The answer to this question, if reflected on, will possibly reveal holes in your personality that
long to be filled.
It can often be more productive and fulfilling to carry out this garden work oneself. Rather than
recruit an external gardner who may leave without giving appropriate notice.
OlympicTim
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Dating her now, been ****ing her too.
Its only been a week and Im already having second thoughts about this one.
Its only been a week and Im already having second thoughts about this one.
wifehunter
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my own personal opinions aside...
It make sense... why have a relationship, if you're already knocking boots, as it were?
All that "get your hands dirty" real relationship stuff can get in the way of the pure animalistic nature of casual sex.
Is it just shallow labels, or something else?
Or maybe, having a relationship and getting to know someone = better sex?
Dhoulmagus
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It's all fun and games until the girl starts withholding sex, demanding more date nights, playing mind games, and much more.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
OlympicTim
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Id like to get married someday.
Many guys on here don't agree with that which is fine.
Only way for me to do that is LTR's.
Dhoulmagus
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ewwww
OlympicTim
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This is one of the reasons I actually love this fourm.
Great place for men who are looking to improve themselves can come and have their belives challenged
wifehunter
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wifehunter
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You know it!!!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
the OP is not in a "Western culture", you can tell this from the first post.
the culture he is in happens to be, for the most part, has no resemblance to western dating culture.
did you guys not catch this by his phrasing and frame?
the culture he is in happens to be, for the most part, has no resemblance to western dating culture.
did you guys not catch this by his phrasing and frame?
Maximus Rex
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So you want enter a LTR with a woman that you didn't even know on New Year's Day. Fascinating. Do you even know the qualities you want in a woman to even consider entering into a LTR with her, and more importantly, why should a woman want to enter into a long term relationship with you?
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Dhoulmagus
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I did notice he was 19
CMNILS87
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He just wants sex and doesnt realize it. Everybody has brainwashed him to thinking he needs to hang with this chick to get sex and a relationship. Hes not even thinking about her qualities except that shes hot and "maybe" nice and getting attention. Daily texting and talking has sunk your battleship. You're an emotional tampon at the moment. She wants to have sex and talks about it, but doesn't tell you to come over??