BoomToTheMoonAlice
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Its a latina thing.She looks like she likes to swallow, am I wrong?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Its a latina thing.She looks like she likes to swallow, am I wrong?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I hope her father never sees this, but just to leave him a little reminder of the way he treated me, I bought the junior miss a super soaker and had a massive water fight in his private gallery. I was on a plane home when he found out.She looks like she likes to swallow, am I wrong?
I've had that happen to me, and I always park far away from everyone else. Ever had your tires flattened?I only drive the biggest piece of junk I can find. People don't steal or break into pieces of crap. I also park beside the nicest car in the lot.
On my car you wouldn't be able to tell.I've had that happen to me, and I always park far away from everyone else. Ever had your tires flattened?lol
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What poor guy has a high status car? No, I’m not talking about Joseph renting one out for a weekend or driving a 10 plus year old luxury car.Right, even if you do attract a woman by a high status car, when she realizes thats all you got, she is not staying long term either
Don't think I ever said poor but plenty own them who can not reasonably afford them and people would assume they are a lot wealthier than they areWhat poor guy has a high status car? No, I’m not talking about Joseph renting one out for a weekend or driving a 10 plus year old luxury car.
A month later, the guy's lifeless body washed up on the beach and the cops (assuming they even respond to stuff like this in Puerto Vallarta) wrote it off as an "accidental drowning".At one point Daddy tried to persuade daughter with a lot of money and a suitor that owned a yacht and half the business in the Puerto Vallarta mall. She chose to get her back blown out by a guy that lived in a dingy motel room and took the public 'limo' to the beach on weekends.
tDon't think I ever said poor but plenty own them who can not reasonably afford them and people would assume they are a lot wealthier than they are
I was referring to the person starting the thread. If you are initially attracting someone with a high status car, 80k+, and that is important to them past early 20s. Most likely they will expect the lifestyle with that. When they realize you can not provide that, most likely they are not sticking around. Point being, do not lead with your wallet especially if you do not have the funds. Present who you are authentically are and that will weed out some of the riff rafft
I think you are referring to the slum dog Jeffrey's that are the 5th owner of a used Mercedes or BMW from a drive away lot using it to impress hood rats. Otherwise, a normal expensive vehicle driver has a decent job/business and the skillsets to bounce back if they were to even temporarily lose their income.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I know what you mean, but frauds aren't driving 80k plus cars. Even if you are pulling a Fresh and Fit with the luxury cars, they aren't financially disadvantaged. A guy working at Mcdonalds as a shift leader isn't driving a Royce and frauding on the side. He might have a high interest loan on a high mileage C-class Benz, but who is that really going to impress though?I was referring to the person starting the thread. If you are initially attracting someone with a high status car, 80k+, and that is important to them past early 20s. Most likely they will expect the lifestyle with that. When they realize you can not provide that, most likely they are not sticking around. Point being, do not lead with your wallet especially if you do not have the funds. Present who you are authentically are and that will weed out some of the riff raff
Lol is the BMW breaking necks due to "damn that's a nice ride" or to "damn that sh1t's loud"?I’ve always had nice cars. Some women cared and some didn’t. When I was young, I had a decent looking car with a loud system in it. I used to take the car cruising in an area where people would cruise. I picked up countless girls back then using my car. They were young and impressed by cars. Right now I own a BMW that is heavily modded and has a loud exhaust. My gf hates riding it. She says it’s too loud and bumpy (it’s lowered). The car breaks necks when I drive down the street. Instead she would rather ride in my stock (non modded) Audi that no one stares at. Then I’ve also had women who like my BMW. So it kind of depends on the woman’s age and who she is.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Both lolLol is the BMW breaking necks due to "damn that's a nice ride" or to "damn that sh1t's loud"?
Hot girls and cool cars always get my attention.
Haha, exactly, chicks love cars that smell good. That's why I always keep my car clean, and make sure it smell good. And it's easier to get laid with them in a clean and nice car that they feel comfy being in, also.Yep, but whatever you drive, keep it clean, tidy, and smelling 'good'
(I personally prefer fruit-smelling air-fresheners to anything floral, or musky, or any of that 'Aqua'/'New-Car'/'Black-Ice'/Whatever.....)
I was once told by a woman... "If your car had been minging (untidy/dirty/smelly/etc) there's no way I would have set foot in your house".
That stuck with me, and I always keep it clean and tidy, with either a Cherry or Citrus freshener.
Theres this one kid from a farm pretty far away.What poor guy has a high status car? No, I’m not talking about Joseph renting one out for a weekend or driving a 10 plus year old luxury car.
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.