"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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does this sound too available?

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I have to respond to a text if I say to set up a date. If I send 'I'm busy tomorrow but I can do tonight or thurs at 8pm. How's then?' Is this too available? She appears to be a working girl and very busy has long hours and I don't want to convey I'm too free. Any suggestions to mention being busy another day?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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big weezy said:
I have to respond to a text if I say to set up a date. If I send 'I'm busy tomorrow but I can do tonight or thurs at 8pm. How's then?' Is this too available? She appears to be a working girl and very busy has long hours and I don't want to convey I'm too free. Any suggestions to mention being busy another day?
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YEAH MAN! Way too available! You gotta say you are NOT available EVER and NEVER be available so you guys can go on a date!

Why not just ask "What day's are you available, and I'll see if I have free time between [saving the world or some generic C&F thing] and [some other thing].
 
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Man, I try to positive around here, but you are the worst poster ever. You can't even make a phone call without pissing your pants.

Stop asking for advice on every minor step. It's gay.
 
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Omg she asked what am I doing this wekend? .... What should I say? Lol. Threads like this can make anyones day.
 
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Omg, I girl smiled at me on the bus this morning. What should I do? Should I claw her and go for the f-close?

lol, oh I can see lots of troll posts on this thread. And to the OP, your not being too available.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Too available? What? I mean, are you available? If you are available, then you might as well be with her at that time...what else are you going to be doing? Jacking off?

If you think that you are "too available", you might want to start doing something. DJ's don't just sit around. You gotta be working towards or on something. 6 days of work, one day of rest.
 
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