"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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does this sound too available?

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I have to respond to a text if I say to set up a date. If I send 'I'm busy tomorrow but I can do tonight or thurs at 8pm. How's then?' Is this too available? She appears to be a working girl and very busy has long hours and I don't want to convey I'm too free. Any suggestions to mention being busy another day?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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big weezy said:
I have to respond to a text if I say to set up a date. If I send 'I'm busy tomorrow but I can do tonight or thurs at 8pm. How's then?' Is this too available? She appears to be a working girl and very busy has long hours and I don't want to convey I'm too free. Any suggestions to mention being busy another day?
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YEAH MAN! Way too available! You gotta say you are NOT available EVER and NEVER be available so you guys can go on a date!

Why not just ask "What day's are you available, and I'll see if I have free time between [saving the world or some generic C&F thing] and [some other thing].
 
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Mantis Toboggan

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Man, I try to positive around here, but you are the worst poster ever. You can't even make a phone call without pissing your pants.

Stop asking for advice on every minor step. It's gay.
 
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Tiguere

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Omg she asked what am I doing this wekend? .... What should I say? Lol. Threads like this can make anyones day.
 
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Omg, I girl smiled at me on the bus this morning. What should I do? Should I claw her and go for the f-close?

lol, oh I can see lots of troll posts on this thread. And to the OP, your not being too available.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Too available? What? I mean, are you available? If you are available, then you might as well be with her at that time...what else are you going to be doing? Jacking off?

If you think that you are "too available", you might want to start doing something. DJ's don't just sit around. You gotta be working towards or on something. 6 days of work, one day of rest.
 
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