"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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does this sound too available?

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big weezy

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I have to respond to a text if I say to set up a date. If I send 'I'm busy tomorrow but I can do tonight or thurs at 8pm. How's then?' Is this too available? She appears to be a working girl and very busy has long hours and I don't want to convey I'm too free. Any suggestions to mention being busy another day?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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big weezy said:
I have to respond to a text if I say to set up a date. If I send 'I'm busy tomorrow but I can do tonight or thurs at 8pm. How's then?' Is this too available? She appears to be a working girl and very busy has long hours and I don't want to convey I'm too free. Any suggestions to mention being busy another day?
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YEAH MAN! Way too available! You gotta say you are NOT available EVER and NEVER be available so you guys can go on a date!

Why not just ask "What day's are you available, and I'll see if I have free time between [saving the world or some generic C&F thing] and [some other thing].
 
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Mantis Toboggan

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Man, I try to positive around here, but you are the worst poster ever. You can't even make a phone call without pissing your pants.

Stop asking for advice on every minor step. It's gay.
 
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Tiguere

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Omg she asked what am I doing this wekend? .... What should I say? Lol. Threads like this can make anyones day.
 
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Omg, I girl smiled at me on the bus this morning. What should I do? Should I claw her and go for the f-close?

lol, oh I can see lots of troll posts on this thread. And to the OP, your not being too available.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Bonafide

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Too available? What? I mean, are you available? If you are available, then you might as well be with her at that time...what else are you going to be doing? Jacking off?

If you think that you are "too available", you might want to start doing something. DJ's don't just sit around. You gotta be working towards or on something. 6 days of work, one day of rest.
 
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