I have to respond to a text if I say to set up a date. If I send 'I'm busy tomorrow but I can do tonight or thurs at 8pm. How's then?' Is this too available? She appears to be a working girl and very busy has long hours and I don't want to convey I'm too free. Any suggestions to mention being busy another day?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
does this sound too available?
- Thread starter big weezy
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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YEAH MAN! Way too available! You gotta say you are NOT available EVER and NEVER be available so you guys can go on a date!big weezy said:I have to respond to a text if I say to set up a date. If I send 'I'm busy tomorrow but I can do tonight or thurs at 8pm. How's then?' Is this too available? She appears to be a working girl and very busy has long hours and I don't want to convey I'm too free. Any suggestions to mention being busy another day?
Why not just ask "What day's are you available, and I'll see if I have free time between [saving the world or some generic C&F thing] and [some other thing].
Mantis Toboggan
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Man, I try to positive around here, but you are the worst poster ever. You can't even make a phone call without pissing your pants.
Stop asking for advice on every minor step. It's gay.
Stop asking for advice on every minor step. It's gay.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Bonafide
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Too available? What? I mean, are you available? If you are available, then you might as well be with her at that time...what else are you going to be doing? Jacking off?
If you think that you are "too available", you might want to start doing something. DJ's don't just sit around. You gotta be working towards or on something. 6 days of work, one day of rest.
If you think that you are "too available", you might want to start doing something. DJ's don't just sit around. You gotta be working towards or on something. 6 days of work, one day of rest.