Identikit_Radiohead
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Does this guy just need to build some juicy bulging muscles and get rid of the Dog picture?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Askaladd
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He needs to get off of dating apps. They are built to profit the developers. He will continue to struggle forever on there and try find the culprit for his dating failures whilst never realising the game was rigged from the start. The physical world is better built for success in terms of dating. Stop swiping, grow some balls and approach women.
Identikit_Radiohead
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What makes you think he wants the Hotties? Only 4% of women under 30 are hot/staceys. he swiped yes on 47% of women, which means mostly average girls and even some 3/10 chubba chubs most likely.
Bokanovsky
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Why do all of these black pill videos have some weird voice speaking with a British accent? Is it supposed to sound more sinister and apocalyptic or something?
Tinder is completely useless in Canada. Most of the profiles are fake. The other apps, which are not great, are still way better than Tinder.
Tinder is completely useless in Canada. Most of the profiles are fake. The other apps, which are not great, are still way better than Tinder.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Identikit_Radiohead
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Because I'm British. And yes dating apps are useless. I originally stopped using them in 2010, then i tried them again in 2016. A waste of time for an average looking guy [healthy weight] looking for a looksmatch.
Zack Freedom
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If you think a guy who is struggling on dating apps will somehow magically get better results by cold approaching in a place like London then that's peak delusional
Apps are part of the modern dating scene whether you like it or not
Cold Approach is no cheat code & whilst it can work there is no point in doing it unless you are in shape & your social skills are on point (which you develop from being involved in social circles or the work place)
Cold Approach on it's own is not a fix for a guy struggling - there is a lot more to do
BackInTheGame78
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There is nothing that stands out about that guy...he simply looks like a prototypical "nice guy" that women don't want, especially on dating apps.
He would probably do much better in social circles.
He would probably do much better in social circles.
The Duke
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His pics aren't great. Some of them are so "neutral". His group pics are horrendous. I just don't see any passion or edge to this guy. Just a very average, guy with a basic life. He doesn't stand out. These are the reasons his profile has failed.
I suspect this video is AI slop. It mentions that he used 3 pics on his profile, yet it showed a total of 6.
I suspect this video is AI slop. It mentions that he used 3 pics on his profile, yet it showed a total of 6.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
Christ this bloke isn't still peddling this black pill stuff 
Identikit_Radiohead
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He is, and he's made a living from it. $500'000 in 5 years.Christ this bloke isn't still peddling this black pill stuff
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Unfortunately, the Black Pill crap ain't going away anytime soon and now that "Looksmaxxing" has become mainstream and is adjacent to the black pill community (far moreso than Redpill) it woudln't shock me if Black Pill will surpasses Red pill within 3-5 years, the closer we get to the AI singulartiy the moren nilshtic people will embrace the Black Pill, and don't even get me started on the numbers for Gen-Z men when it comes to employment, sexlessness, and living at home with their parents.....Christ this bloke isn't still peddling this black pill stuff
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
He's pleasant looking and somewhat attractive. However. He screams 'nice guy' and is not 'sexy'. He will fail on Tinder. Even with muscles.
This is evergreen:
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Girls go on Tinder because they are horny. If you don't give her gina tingles, it's swipe left.
This is evergreen:
Tinder Experiments II: Guys, unless you are really hot you are probably better off not wasting your…
by Worst-Online-Dater
Girls go on Tinder because they are horny. If you don't give her gina tingles, it's swipe left.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
I've been watching videos on using AI. They almost all have British voices babbling a mile a minute. At least this guy has a reasonable speed.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Cheeky_James
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Like duke said - his photos are sh1t.
He’s projecting zero sex appeal / style , sense of humour or personality. lol.
He’s projecting zero sex appeal / style , sense of humour or personality. lol.
Manure Spherian
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Wheat Waffles is detestable.