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Don Juan
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What makes you think he wants the Hotties? Only 4% of women under 30 are hot/staceys. he swiped yes on 47% of women, which means mostly average girls and even some 3/10 chubba chubs most likely.In my experience big juicy muscles + dog photo gets the hotties matching.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Because I'm British. And yes dating apps are useless. I originally stopped using them in 2010, then i tried them again in 2016. A waste of time for an average looking guy [healthy weight] looking for a looksmatch.Why do all of these black pill videos have some weird voice speaking with a British accent? Is it supposed to sound more sinister and apocalyptic or something?
Tinder is completely useless in Canada. Most of the profiles are fake. The other apps, which are not great, are still way better than Tinder.
If you think a guy who is struggling on dating apps will somehow magically get better results by cold approaching in a place like London then that's peak delusionalHe needs to get off of dating apps. They are built to profit the developers. He will continue to struggle forever on there and try find the culprit for his dating failures whilst never realising the game was rigged from the start. The physical world is better built for success in terms of dating. Stop swiping, grow some balls and approach women.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
He is, and he's made a living from it. $500'000 in 5 years.Christ this bloke isn't still peddling this black pill stuff![]()
Unfortunately, the Black Pill crap ain't going away anytime soon and now that "Looksmaxxing" has become mainstream and is adjacent to the black pill community (far moreso than Redpill) it woudln't shock me if Black Pill will surpasses Red pill within 3-5 years, the closer we get to the AI singulartiy the moren nilshtic people will embrace the Black Pill, and don't even get me started on the numbers for Gen-Z men when it comes to employment, sexlessness, and living at home with their parents.....Christ this bloke isn't still peddling this black pill stuff![]()
I've been watching videos on using AI. They almost all have British voices babbling a mile a minute. At least this guy has a reasonable speed.Why do all of these black pill videos have some weird voice speaking with a British accent? Is it supposed to sound more sinister and apocalyptic or something?
Tinder is completely useless in Canada. Most of the profiles are fake. The other apps, which are not great, are still way better than Tinder.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.