"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does this guy just need to build some juicy bulging muscles and get rid of the Dog picture?

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Askaladd

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He needs to get off of dating apps. They are built to profit the developers. He will continue to struggle forever on there and try find the culprit for his dating failures whilst never realising the game was rigged from the start. The physical world is better built for success in terms of dating. Stop swiping, grow some balls and approach women.
 

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In my experience big juicy muscles + dog photo gets the hotties matching.
 
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In my experience big juicy muscles + dog photo gets the hotties matching.
What makes you think he wants the Hotties? Only 4% of women under 30 are hot/staceys. he swiped yes on 47% of women, which means mostly average girls and even some 3/10 chubba chubs most likely.
 

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Why do all of these black pill videos have some weird voice speaking with a British accent? Is it supposed to sound more sinister and apocalyptic or something?

Tinder is completely useless in Canada. Most of the profiles are fake. The other apps, which are not great, are still way better than Tinder.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why do all of these black pill videos have some weird voice speaking with a British accent? Is it supposed to sound more sinister and apocalyptic or something?

Tinder is completely useless in Canada. Most of the profiles are fake. The other apps, which are not great, are still way better than Tinder.
Because I'm British. And yes dating apps are useless. I originally stopped using them in 2010, then i tried them again in 2016. A waste of time for an average looking guy [healthy weight] looking for a looksmatch.
 

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He needs to get off of dating apps. They are built to profit the developers. He will continue to struggle forever on there and try find the culprit for his dating failures whilst never realising the game was rigged from the start. The physical world is better built for success in terms of dating. Stop swiping, grow some balls and approach women.
If you think a guy who is struggling on dating apps will somehow magically get better results by cold approaching in a place like London then that's peak delusional

Apps are part of the modern dating scene whether you like it or not

Cold Approach is no cheat code & whilst it can work there is no point in doing it unless you are in shape & your social skills are on point (which you develop from being involved in social circles or the work place)

Cold Approach on it's own is not a fix for a guy struggling - there is a lot more to do
 

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There is nothing that stands out about that guy...he simply looks like a prototypical "nice guy" that women don't want, especially on dating apps.

He would probably do much better in social circles.
 

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His pics aren't great. Some of them are so "neutral". His group pics are horrendous. I just don't see any passion or edge to this guy. Just a very average, guy with a basic life. He doesn't stand out. These are the reasons his profile has failed.

I suspect this video is AI slop. It mentions that he used 3 pics on his profile, yet it showed a total of 6.
 

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This is 100% proof that height isn't everything.
Women will choose masculine looking men that range from 5'7" to 5'11" over feminine looking men that range from 6'1" to 6'6"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Christ this bloke isn't still peddling this black pill stuff :rofl:
 

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Christ this bloke isn't still peddling this black pill stuff :rofl:
Unfortunately, the Black Pill crap ain't going away anytime soon and now that "Looksmaxxing" has become mainstream and is adjacent to the black pill community (far moreso than Redpill) it woudln't shock me if Black Pill will surpasses Red pill within 3-5 years, the closer we get to the AI singulartiy the moren nilshtic people will embrace the Black Pill, and don't even get me started on the numbers for Gen-Z men when it comes to employment, sexlessness, and living at home with their parents.....
 

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Why do all of these black pill videos have some weird voice speaking with a British accent? Is it supposed to sound more sinister and apocalyptic or something?

Tinder is completely useless in Canada. Most of the profiles are fake. The other apps, which are not great, are still way better than Tinder.
I've been watching videos on using AI. They almost all have British voices babbling a mile a minute. At least this guy has a reasonable speed.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Like duke said - his photos are sh1t.
He’s projecting zero sex appeal / style , sense of humour or personality. lol.:rolleyes:
 

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Wheat Waffles is detestable.
 
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