"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Does she qualify for a LTR?

tesla8520

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Hi there guys!
Met this chick and I'm testing wheter this is good for LTR or not.

She has 28 years, no kids, AFAIK, she had 5 boyfriends, and 4 relationships from 3 to 6 months each, then a 6 year relationship.
Then today. Her BC is probably between 10 to 20 (my assumption).
Those guys were all good men, no drug addict or criminals. 3 guys were form her circle, while 3 from outside

She's a 8 but a bit fat so 7 now, and have very feminine attitude and maneerism.
She's really good at sex and company

I'm looking for a woman who have her needs met, and she does, but want company, sex, and maybe in 2 years from now, we can talk about bigger things such as living togheter, kids, and so on.

Do you think her past relationships log would tell us she's not qualified for a LTR?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"AFAIK, she had 5 boyfriends, and 4 relationships from 3 to 6 months each, then a 6 year relationship."

I'm not sure how you'd get to know this.

Buy anyway...sounds like an MTR to me. M for Medium.
 

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That's a zoom out overview which may or may not be accurate because a lot of this is guesswork by you. As such, that doesn't really help you much.

At the end of the day, her behavior and what you find out over a 3-4 month or longer period of time will tell you what you need to know.

If you are paying attention that is.
 

Gamisch

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Stop focusing on LTR cohabitation, marriage ect

Just have FUN, and promote her after every 3 months. That means after 3 months yall dating, and 6 months yall can call it a LTR.

Regardless of her experiences with men yesterday , it's about how she treats YOU today
 

tesla8520

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That means after 3 months yall dating, and 6 months yall can call it a LTR.
Yes I have a schedule for that.


it's about how she treats YOU today
At the end of the day she could be someone like valentina nappi, but yes, it's how she treats and respect me and the relationship.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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