"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Does she qualify for a LTR?

tesla8520

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Hi there guys!
Met this chick and I'm testing wheter this is good for LTR or not.

She has 28 years, no kids, AFAIK, she had 5 boyfriends, and 4 relationships from 3 to 6 months each, then a 6 year relationship.
Then today. Her BC is probably between 10 to 20 (my assumption).
Those guys were all good men, no drug addict or criminals. 3 guys were form her circle, while 3 from outside

She's a 8 but a bit fat so 7 now, and have very feminine attitude and maneerism.
She's really good at sex and company

I'm looking for a woman who have her needs met, and she does, but want company, sex, and maybe in 2 years from now, we can talk about bigger things such as living togheter, kids, and so on.

Do you think her past relationships log would tell us she's not qualified for a LTR?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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UK manc

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"AFAIK, she had 5 boyfriends, and 4 relationships from 3 to 6 months each, then a 6 year relationship."

I'm not sure how you'd get to know this.

Buy anyway...sounds like an MTR to me. M for Medium.
 

BackInTheGame78

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That's a zoom out overview which may or may not be accurate because a lot of this is guesswork by you. As such, that doesn't really help you much.

At the end of the day, her behavior and what you find out over a 3-4 month or longer period of time will tell you what you need to know.

If you are paying attention that is.
 

Gamisch

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Stop focusing on LTR cohabitation, marriage ect

Just have FUN, and promote her after every 3 months. That means after 3 months yall dating, and 6 months yall can call it a LTR.

Regardless of her experiences with men yesterday , it's about how she treats YOU today
 
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