"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Does she qualify for a LTR?

tesla8520

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Hi there guys!
Met this chick and I'm testing wheter this is good for LTR or not.

She has 28 years, no kids, AFAIK, she had 5 boyfriends, and 4 relationships from 3 to 6 months each, then a 6 year relationship.
Then today. Her BC is probably between 10 to 20 (my assumption).
Those guys were all good men, no drug addict or criminals. 3 guys were form her circle, while 3 from outside

She's a 8 but a bit fat so 7 now, and have very feminine attitude and maneerism.
She's really good at sex and company

I'm looking for a woman who have her needs met, and she does, but want company, sex, and maybe in 2 years from now, we can talk about bigger things such as living togheter, kids, and so on.

Do you think her past relationships log would tell us she's not qualified for a LTR?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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UK manc

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"AFAIK, she had 5 boyfriends, and 4 relationships from 3 to 6 months each, then a 6 year relationship."

I'm not sure how you'd get to know this.

Buy anyway...sounds like an MTR to me. M for Medium.
 

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That's a zoom out overview which may or may not be accurate because a lot of this is guesswork by you. As such, that doesn't really help you much.

At the end of the day, her behavior and what you find out over a 3-4 month or longer period of time will tell you what you need to know.

If you are paying attention that is.
 

Gamisch

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Stop focusing on LTR cohabitation, marriage ect

Just have FUN, and promote her after every 3 months. That means after 3 months yall dating, and 6 months yall can call it a LTR.

Regardless of her experiences with men yesterday , it's about how she treats YOU today
 

tesla8520

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That means after 3 months yall dating, and 6 months yall can call it a LTR.
Yes I have a schedule for that.


it's about how she treats YOU today
At the end of the day she could be someone like valentina nappi, but yes, it's how she treats and respect me and the relationship.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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