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bignick79

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Hey Guys!

I wrote a post a while back about this girl i was into. She had broken up with her b/f, but wasnt ready to get into anything serious, she was still thinking about getting back with her man, so i backed off and started to leave her alone.

Well, a few weeks have gone by, and today she calls but i didn't answer the phone. So, she leaves a message telling me about some job orientation she went to and asked if i'd be interested to call her. Is this her way of staying in touch and saying she misses me? or am i reading too much into it?? Gimme your opinions guys.


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Slickster

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Find out if the other dude is still in the picture. If she's still playing games with you then say see ya and put her on the bottom of your list.

Don't be the guy giving her attention when she needs it. Especially when she's going home and fvcking him.
 

flexion_

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Call her back - don't bring up the x-bf at all. If she brings up the x-bf then you are wasting your time.
 

Aztec

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Originally posted by flexion_
Call her back - don't bring up the x-bf at all. If she brings up the x-bf then you are wasting your time.
I agree. I wouldn't totally ignore her. If she mentioned anything about her boyfriend, she's using a crutch.

Depending on how you really like her ;) , don't totally ditch her.
 

cave dweller

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the call

Hey,
She called you, that means she wants you 'mount' her.
The ex-bf is history.

cave dweller
 

bignick79

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Interesting theory Cave Dweller, u sure about that?? :D

Big Nick
 

bignick79

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How long should i wait to call??

Big Nick
 

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1) Call her and ask her out.
2) See if she accepts
3) At the end of the date, kiss her in a romantic way.

Saves a lot of time and wondering if she meant "x" when she said "y"
 

bignick79

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I called her and she was having lunch with him. So....Can anyone say NEXT!!!

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Friggin' typical.

You might want to review your past w/ her to determine if you've been an AFC to her. I'm guessing that you've been a bit of a doormat if she pulled this crap.

What doesn't kill ya makes your stronger.

(...your time for revenge is at hand. Viola. The ZF-1...) (a Fifth Element reference)
 

penkitten

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Originally posted by Aztec
If she mentioned anything about her boyfriend, she's using a crutch.

can we guess who the crutch was ?
*hint * hint* it wasnt the bf...

sheesh... felllas ... girls do this crap all the time!
watch out for it! dont get tricked!!
 

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hey my first post!
dude, you want her? take her DANCING! Boyfriend will be GONE! level the field first. then be elusive. then get a hotterchick on your arm in her face. have a tequila and sit back. sparks will fly. then get her alone and drunk. dance again while you are alone. done deal.
cracky
 
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