"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does she miss me??

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Hey Guys!

I wrote a post a while back about this girl i was into. She had broken up with her b/f, but wasnt ready to get into anything serious, she was still thinking about getting back with her man, so i backed off and started to leave her alone.

Well, a few weeks have gone by, and today she calls but i didn't answer the phone. So, she leaves a message telling me about some job orientation she went to and asked if i'd be interested to call her. Is this her way of staying in touch and saying she misses me? or am i reading too much into it?? Gimme your opinions guys.


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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Find out if the other dude is still in the picture. If she's still playing games with you then say see ya and put her on the bottom of your list.

Don't be the guy giving her attention when she needs it. Especially when she's going home and fvcking him.
 
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Call her back - don't bring up the x-bf at all. If she brings up the x-bf then you are wasting your time.
 
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Originally posted by flexion_
Call her back - don't bring up the x-bf at all. If she brings up the x-bf then you are wasting your time.
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I agree. I wouldn't totally ignore her. If she mentioned anything about her boyfriend, she's using a crutch.

Depending on how you really like her ;) , don't totally ditch her.
 
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the call

Hey,
She called you, that means she wants you 'mount' her.
The ex-bf is history.

cave dweller
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Interesting theory Cave Dweller, u sure about that?? :D

Big Nick
 
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How long should i wait to call??

Big Nick
 
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1) Call her and ask her out.
2) See if she accepts
3) At the end of the date, kiss her in a romantic way.

Saves a lot of time and wondering if she meant "x" when she said "y"
 
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I called her and she was having lunch with him. So....Can anyone say NEXT!!!

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Friggin' typical.

You might want to review your past w/ her to determine if you've been an AFC to her. I'm guessing that you've been a bit of a doormat if she pulled this crap.

What doesn't kill ya makes your stronger.

(...your time for revenge is at hand. Viola. The ZF-1...) (a Fifth Element reference)
 
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Originally posted by Aztec
If she mentioned anything about her boyfriend, she's using a crutch.
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can we guess who the crutch was ?
*hint * hint* it wasnt the bf...

sheesh... felllas ... girls do this crap all the time!
watch out for it! dont get tricked!!
 
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hey my first post!
dude, you want her? take her DANCING! Boyfriend will be GONE! level the field first. then be elusive. then get a hotterchick on your arm in her face. have a tequila and sit back. sparks will fly. then get her alone and drunk. dance again while you are alone. done deal.
cracky
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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