"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does she like me?

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I just had my first hanging out with this girl. It wasn't officially a date because she is a girl in my band i just invited her so she can buy me dinner and movie for my b day :D

so ya the hanging out went kinda well, we had a lot of funny convo to talk about, the movie was great, then at night she had to go back home we only hung out for a few hours.

Then back home at msn she told me: "i dunno noe about you but i had fun."

Is it the girl's way of saying: "Hey hanging out with you was fun, i want to go out with you again." ??

And if i go out with her again how can i test if she is interested in me? Thx a lot
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"Does she like me?"

If i had a penny for everytime someone posted this title.....:rolleyes:
 

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Just assume she likes you and act accordingly.
 

wavejams007

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
"Does she like me?"

If i had a penny for everytime someone posted this title.....:rolleyes:
how true, how true...

I know this is coming sometime, so might as well say it now, "read the DJ bible" or my favorite DAFS.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ok, so next time at the movies or whatever should i approach her? make some moves?
 

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Originally posted by The Juan and only
Just assume she likes you and act accordingly.

Yes, make a move. Read the advice above.

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