"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Does she like me?

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I just had my first hanging out with this girl. It wasn't officially a date because she is a girl in my band i just invited her so she can buy me dinner and movie for my b day :D

so ya the hanging out went kinda well, we had a lot of funny convo to talk about, the movie was great, then at night she had to go back home we only hung out for a few hours.

Then back home at msn she told me: "i dunno noe about you but i had fun."

Is it the girl's way of saying: "Hey hanging out with you was fun, i want to go out with you again." ??

And if i go out with her again how can i test if she is interested in me? Thx a lot
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"Does she like me?"

If i had a penny for everytime someone posted this title.....:rolleyes:
 

The Juan and only

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Just assume she likes you and act accordingly.
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
"Does she like me?"

If i had a penny for everytime someone posted this title.....:rolleyes:
how true, how true...

I know this is coming sometime, so might as well say it now, "read the DJ bible" or my favorite DAFS.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ICaughtFire

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ok, so next time at the movies or whatever should i approach her? make some moves?
 

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Originally posted by The Juan and only
Just assume she likes you and act accordingly.

Yes, make a move. Read the advice above.

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