"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Does she like me?

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I just had my first hanging out with this girl. It wasn't officially a date because she is a girl in my band i just invited her so she can buy me dinner and movie for my b day :D

so ya the hanging out went kinda well, we had a lot of funny convo to talk about, the movie was great, then at night she had to go back home we only hung out for a few hours.

Then back home at msn she told me: "i dunno noe about you but i had fun."

Is it the girl's way of saying: "Hey hanging out with you was fun, i want to go out with you again." ??

And if i go out with her again how can i test if she is interested in me? Thx a lot
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Does she like me?"

If i had a penny for everytime someone posted this title.....:rolleyes:
 

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Just assume she likes you and act accordingly.
 

wavejams007

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
"Does she like me?"

If i had a penny for everytime someone posted this title.....:rolleyes:
how true, how true...

I know this is coming sometime, so might as well say it now, "read the DJ bible" or my favorite DAFS.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ok, so next time at the movies or whatever should i approach her? make some moves?
 

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Originally posted by The Juan and only
Just assume she likes you and act accordingly.

Yes, make a move. Read the advice above.

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