"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I just had my first hanging out with this girl. It wasn't officially a date because she is a girl in my band i just invited her so she can buy me dinner and movie for my b day :D

so ya the hanging out went kinda well, we had a lot of funny convo to talk about, the movie was great, then at night she had to go back home we only hung out for a few hours.

Then back home at msn she told me: "i dunno noe about you but i had fun."

Is it the girl's way of saying: "Hey hanging out with you was fun, i want to go out with you again." ??

And if i go out with her again how can i test if she is interested in me? Thx a lot
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Does she like me?"

If i had a penny for everytime someone posted this title.....:rolleyes:
 
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Just assume she likes you and act accordingly.
 
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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
"Does she like me?"

If i had a penny for everytime someone posted this title.....:rolleyes:
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how true, how true...

I know this is coming sometime, so might as well say it now, "read the DJ bible" or my favorite DAFS.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ok, so next time at the movies or whatever should i approach her? make some moves?
 
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Originally posted by The Juan and only
Just assume she likes you and act accordingly.
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Yes, make a move. Read the advice above.

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