"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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does she like me?

mojo16

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ive liked this girl for ages, but shes giving me heaps of mixed signals..

im no pro with the girls, but me and her really get along and i dont want to screw this one up.

last night she came over, we hung out all night and went really well, except shes really really quiet and i want her to come out of her shell a bit.
after i dropped her home she texted me about 30 mins later saying 'once ive finished school i better get to see you everyday!' and then she said 'why am i still so shy around you'?

is this a good thing or a bad thing?

does she like me or not?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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runner83

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Less talking and asking stupid questions here, and more action!

How should we know?

There is only one way to know if a girl likes you, and that is to JUDGE HER BY HER ACTIONS NOT HER WORDS. You must make a move.

If she says she "really likes you" then won't make out or get physical, then guess what, she doesn't like you except as a friend!

If on the other hand, when you make a move and she is also into it, then no matter what she may have said, JUDGE HER BY HER ACTIONS NOT HER WORDS, which says that she does like you.

So, make a move, JUDGE HER BY HER ACTIONS NOT HER WORDS, and report back to give us a status update.
 

PapiChulo

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Yeah my friend, you are risking getting friend-zoned, she does like you, but is there any sexual connection going on-that's the question.

Are you being sexual with her anyhow,i.e. telling sexy jokes, kino, openly discussing sexual topics? How does she react to this?

Do some reading in the Bible on how not to get "friend-zoned". If she drops that "I see you as a friend.... blah blah "- get rid of the her unless she is of some use to you, i.e. attracting other females, favors, etc.

If she's shy around you- good sign-you have a live one.
That seeing everyday- a bit too much, it's a great way to be a "friend" not a lover.
 

Electric

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Yes she likes you. Now go make love to her before she thinks you're gay and stop liking you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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