"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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does she like me?

mojo16

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ive liked this girl for ages, but shes giving me heaps of mixed signals..

im no pro with the girls, but me and her really get along and i dont want to screw this one up.

last night she came over, we hung out all night and went really well, except shes really really quiet and i want her to come out of her shell a bit.
after i dropped her home she texted me about 30 mins later saying 'once ive finished school i better get to see you everyday!' and then she said 'why am i still so shy around you'?

is this a good thing or a bad thing?

does she like me or not?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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runner83

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Less talking and asking stupid questions here, and more action!

How should we know?

There is only one way to know if a girl likes you, and that is to JUDGE HER BY HER ACTIONS NOT HER WORDS. You must make a move.

If she says she "really likes you" then won't make out or get physical, then guess what, she doesn't like you except as a friend!

If on the other hand, when you make a move and she is also into it, then no matter what she may have said, JUDGE HER BY HER ACTIONS NOT HER WORDS, which says that she does like you.

So, make a move, JUDGE HER BY HER ACTIONS NOT HER WORDS, and report back to give us a status update.
 

PapiChulo

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Yeah my friend, you are risking getting friend-zoned, she does like you, but is there any sexual connection going on-that's the question.

Are you being sexual with her anyhow,i.e. telling sexy jokes, kino, openly discussing sexual topics? How does she react to this?

Do some reading in the Bible on how not to get "friend-zoned". If she drops that "I see you as a friend.... blah blah "- get rid of the her unless she is of some use to you, i.e. attracting other females, favors, etc.

If she's shy around you- good sign-you have a live one.
That seeing everyday- a bit too much, it's a great way to be a "friend" not a lover.
 

Electric

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Yes she likes you. Now go make love to her before she thinks you're gay and stop liking you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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