Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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does she like me?

mojo16

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ive liked this girl for ages, but shes giving me heaps of mixed signals..

im no pro with the girls, but me and her really get along and i dont want to screw this one up.

last night she came over, we hung out all night and went really well, except shes really really quiet and i want her to come out of her shell a bit.
after i dropped her home she texted me about 30 mins later saying 'once ive finished school i better get to see you everyday!' and then she said 'why am i still so shy around you'?

is this a good thing or a bad thing?

does she like me or not?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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runner83

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Less talking and asking stupid questions here, and more action!

How should we know?

There is only one way to know if a girl likes you, and that is to JUDGE HER BY HER ACTIONS NOT HER WORDS. You must make a move.

If she says she "really likes you" then won't make out or get physical, then guess what, she doesn't like you except as a friend!

If on the other hand, when you make a move and she is also into it, then no matter what she may have said, JUDGE HER BY HER ACTIONS NOT HER WORDS, which says that she does like you.

So, make a move, JUDGE HER BY HER ACTIONS NOT HER WORDS, and report back to give us a status update.
 

PapiChulo

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Yeah my friend, you are risking getting friend-zoned, she does like you, but is there any sexual connection going on-that's the question.

Are you being sexual with her anyhow,i.e. telling sexy jokes, kino, openly discussing sexual topics? How does she react to this?

Do some reading in the Bible on how not to get "friend-zoned". If she drops that "I see you as a friend.... blah blah "- get rid of the her unless she is of some use to you, i.e. attracting other females, favors, etc.

If she's shy around you- good sign-you have a live one.
That seeing everyday- a bit too much, it's a great way to be a "friend" not a lover.
 

Electric

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Yes she likes you. Now go make love to her before she thinks you're gay and stop liking you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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