"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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does she like me?

mojo16

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ive liked this girl for ages, but shes giving me heaps of mixed signals..

im no pro with the girls, but me and her really get along and i dont want to screw this one up.

last night she came over, we hung out all night and went really well, except shes really really quiet and i want her to come out of her shell a bit.
after i dropped her home she texted me about 30 mins later saying 'once ive finished school i better get to see you everyday!' and then she said 'why am i still so shy around you'?

is this a good thing or a bad thing?

does she like me or not?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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runner83

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Less talking and asking stupid questions here, and more action!

How should we know?

There is only one way to know if a girl likes you, and that is to JUDGE HER BY HER ACTIONS NOT HER WORDS. You must make a move.

If she says she "really likes you" then won't make out or get physical, then guess what, she doesn't like you except as a friend!

If on the other hand, when you make a move and she is also into it, then no matter what she may have said, JUDGE HER BY HER ACTIONS NOT HER WORDS, which says that she does like you.

So, make a move, JUDGE HER BY HER ACTIONS NOT HER WORDS, and report back to give us a status update.
 

PapiChulo

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Yeah my friend, you are risking getting friend-zoned, she does like you, but is there any sexual connection going on-that's the question.

Are you being sexual with her anyhow,i.e. telling sexy jokes, kino, openly discussing sexual topics? How does she react to this?

Do some reading in the Bible on how not to get "friend-zoned". If she drops that "I see you as a friend.... blah blah "- get rid of the her unless she is of some use to you, i.e. attracting other females, favors, etc.

If she's shy around you- good sign-you have a live one.
That seeing everyday- a bit too much, it's a great way to be a "friend" not a lover.
 

Electric

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Yes she likes you. Now go make love to her before she thinks you're gay and stop liking you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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