FuzzyLives
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If you don't jerk off for a long time, does it lower sex drive?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Does not masturbating for awhile kill sex drive?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Not if your having sex
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Unlock level 10 god-frame with that strategy, supes
FuzzyLives
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So If you're not it does?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Damn. Without sex if you overdo it it mess things up and if you under do it it mess things up. It's better for a man to have consistent willing sexual partners.
No fap will kill your sex drive after a month of so. Then it will come back x10 in about another month.
After 6 months of no fap, I was like a horny dog.
It was an uncomfortable amount of horniness. So horny I couldn't focus on day to day tasks.
A few times I paid for sex from escorts.
My advice is only masturbate once a week if you don't get laid that week.
I feel like it's the best alternative.
After 6 months of no fap, I was like a horny dog.
It was an uncomfortable amount of horniness. So horny I couldn't focus on day to day tasks.
A few times I paid for sex from escorts.
My advice is only masturbate once a week if you don't get laid that week.
I feel like it's the best alternative.
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
The goal is self-control not self-destruction. In our pornified culture, most men have an out of control libido. This obviously leads to all sorts of problems, such as an inability to screen properly at one end to an inability to meet women at the other.
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
Except inherently vicious acts.... such as self-abuse.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
TheMonkeyKing
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I'm currently on day 11. There has been no decrease in drive; if anything, getting randomly aroused at odd times, like seeing rugby size girls in the gym ... I wonder what Freud would have to say
Going to give it a good stint, at least for a couple of months so will report any major observations. Body currently flat-lining a bit generally, as have been exercising a lot.
Going to give it a good stint, at least for a couple of months so will report any major observations. Body currently flat-lining a bit generally, as have been exercising a lot.