FuzzyLives
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If you don't jerk off for a long time, does it lower sex drive?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Does not masturbating for awhile kill sex drive?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Not if your having sex
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Unlock level 10 god-frame with that strategy, supes
FuzzyLives
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So If you're not it does?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Damn. Without sex if you overdo it it mess things up and if you under do it it mess things up. It's better for a man to have consistent willing sexual partners.
No fap will kill your sex drive after a month of so. Then it will come back x10 in about another month.
After 6 months of no fap, I was like a horny dog.
It was an uncomfortable amount of horniness. So horny I couldn't focus on day to day tasks.
A few times I paid for sex from escorts.
My advice is only masturbate once a week if you don't get laid that week.
I feel like it's the best alternative.
After 6 months of no fap, I was like a horny dog.
It was an uncomfortable amount of horniness. So horny I couldn't focus on day to day tasks.
A few times I paid for sex from escorts.
My advice is only masturbate once a week if you don't get laid that week.
I feel like it's the best alternative.
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
The goal is self-control not self-destruction. In our pornified culture, most men have an out of control libido. This obviously leads to all sorts of problems, such as an inability to screen properly at one end to an inability to meet women at the other.
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
Except inherently vicious acts.... such as self-abuse.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
TheMonkeyKing
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I'm currently on day 11. There has been no decrease in drive; if anything, getting randomly aroused at odd times, like seeing rugby size girls in the gym ... I wonder what Freud would have to say
Going to give it a good stint, at least for a couple of months so will report any major observations. Body currently flat-lining a bit generally, as have been exercising a lot.
Going to give it a good stint, at least for a couple of months so will report any major observations. Body currently flat-lining a bit generally, as have been exercising a lot.