FuzzyLives
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If you don't jerk off for a long time, does it lower sex drive?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Does not masturbating for awhile kill sex drive?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Not if your having sex
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Unlock level 10 god-frame with that strategy, supes
FuzzyLives
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So If you're not it does?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Damn. Without sex if you overdo it it mess things up and if you under do it it mess things up. It's better for a man to have consistent willing sexual partners.
No fap will kill your sex drive after a month of so. Then it will come back x10 in about another month.
After 6 months of no fap, I was like a horny dog.
It was an uncomfortable amount of horniness. So horny I couldn't focus on day to day tasks.
A few times I paid for sex from escorts.
My advice is only masturbate once a week if you don't get laid that week.
I feel like it's the best alternative.
After 6 months of no fap, I was like a horny dog.
It was an uncomfortable amount of horniness. So horny I couldn't focus on day to day tasks.
A few times I paid for sex from escorts.
My advice is only masturbate once a week if you don't get laid that week.
I feel like it's the best alternative.
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
The goal is self-control not self-destruction. In our pornified culture, most men have an out of control libido. This obviously leads to all sorts of problems, such as an inability to screen properly at one end to an inability to meet women at the other.
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
Except inherently vicious acts.... such as self-abuse.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TheMonkeyKing
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I'm currently on day 11. There has been no decrease in drive; if anything, getting randomly aroused at odd times, like seeing rugby size girls in the gym ... I wonder what Freud would have to say
Going to give it a good stint, at least for a couple of months so will report any major observations. Body currently flat-lining a bit generally, as have been exercising a lot.
Going to give it a good stint, at least for a couple of months so will report any major observations. Body currently flat-lining a bit generally, as have been exercising a lot.