CFERD said:
I'll do that....mature forum.
Edit: here you go:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=149767
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Does "No Contact" really work?
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I'll do that....mature forum.
Edit: here you go:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=149767
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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CFERD said:
MNIN is doing fine but since he was banished from sosuave he has found a new place to post. MNIN failed in the no contact but the girl in question is being receptive again and wants to be "friends". MNIN is going to try and hit it again.
i cant believe i just read this whole thread, and one things for certain this guy has no ability to learn, after so much advice was given he has ignored it completly, and if "impaler" IS right then hes going head on into a collision which will not end well for him
edit: and the only reason i read it all was i hoping for some advancements
edit: and the only reason i read it all was i hoping for some advancements
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BlackJackal
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Wow, this was the most pathetic thread I ever read.
evelsteve
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Why does this guy even care? She's not in love with him. She won't have sex with him. She won't even treat him decently, as a platonic friend. So the point of this is.......... WTF? LOL!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
evelsteve
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it only took 5 years to realize this, lol!davidmartin414 said:
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Holy f*cking hell.... Thirty-seven pages of DJs trying to help an absolute fool.
evelsteve
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Hey, that's what we're here for. Hopefully, they'll be one less fool out there.:rockon:The Gambler said:
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Don't be hating on the OP. I talked to him recently and he came out on top.
The woman he made this thread about is now 50 pounds overweight and has a bastard child.
The woman he made this thread about is now 50 pounds overweight and has a bastard child.
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Jesus Christ did I really read this whole thread.... makes my oneitis seem like dog sh1t compared to this guy
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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37 pages later, this was hilarious. How this guy managed to pull a hot 21 year old I don't know. like latinoman kept saying - afc, afc, afc
I wonder if the fat chick took him back....
I wonder if the fat chick took him back....
evelsteve
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Wtf?
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jimmy18 said:
What fat chic is that guy talking about, the one this thread is about? As I said MNIN told me she is a fat cow now with a bastard kid. Ofcourse he wants nothing to do with her. He is doing fine now with his new woman. Everything is a learning experience. I am glad he went through this.
You need to be rejected by your girlfriend or wife in extreme ways at least a few times. After that you just don't care anymore. When you don't care you can't lose. Even though he loves his current chic if she pisses him off he will kick her a$$ out of the door. She better pray he never finds out anything shady about her.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
evelsteve
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I notice how a guy frets over some woman, and as soon as he finds another one, worthy of this time, he doesn't give a crap about the last one.
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That is the root of the problem isn't it? Not having another woman when it goes bad. It is NOT hard to find a replacement if you really focus and are brave. I can guarantee if my girl dumped me today I have the balls to approach every hot woman I see and make conversation. I won't stop doing it until a replacement is found. Don't care if I get rejected 800 times.evelsteve said:
evelsteve
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Exactly. That's the best way to resolve it.
mrgoodstuff
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Finding that other woman is the quickest way to ensure closure and bridge back over to positive feelings about yourself as a man.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.