CFERD said:
I'll do that....mature forum.
Edit: here you go:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=149767
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Does "No Contact" really work?
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I'll do that....mature forum.
Edit: here you go:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=149767
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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CFERD said:
MNIN is doing fine but since he was banished from sosuave he has found a new place to post. MNIN failed in the no contact but the girl in question is being receptive again and wants to be "friends". MNIN is going to try and hit it again.
i cant believe i just read this whole thread, and one things for certain this guy has no ability to learn, after so much advice was given he has ignored it completly, and if "impaler" IS right then hes going head on into a collision which will not end well for him
edit: and the only reason i read it all was i hoping for some advancements
edit: and the only reason i read it all was i hoping for some advancements
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BlackJackal
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Wow, this was the most pathetic thread I ever read.
evelsteve
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Why does this guy even care? She's not in love with him. She won't have sex with him. She won't even treat him decently, as a platonic friend. So the point of this is.......... WTF? LOL!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
evelsteve
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it only took 5 years to realize this, lol!davidmartin414 said:
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Holy f*cking hell.... Thirty-seven pages of DJs trying to help an absolute fool.
evelsteve
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Hey, that's what we're here for. Hopefully, they'll be one less fool out there.:rockon:The Gambler said:
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Don't be hating on the OP. I talked to him recently and he came out on top.
The woman he made this thread about is now 50 pounds overweight and has a bastard child.
The woman he made this thread about is now 50 pounds overweight and has a bastard child.
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Jesus Christ did I really read this whole thread.... makes my oneitis seem like dog sh1t compared to this guy
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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37 pages later, this was hilarious. How this guy managed to pull a hot 21 year old I don't know. like latinoman kept saying - afc, afc, afc
I wonder if the fat chick took him back....
I wonder if the fat chick took him back....
evelsteve
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Wtf?
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jimmy18 said:
What fat chic is that guy talking about, the one this thread is about? As I said MNIN told me she is a fat cow now with a bastard kid. Ofcourse he wants nothing to do with her. He is doing fine now with his new woman. Everything is a learning experience. I am glad he went through this.
You need to be rejected by your girlfriend or wife in extreme ways at least a few times. After that you just don't care anymore. When you don't care you can't lose. Even though he loves his current chic if she pisses him off he will kick her a$$ out of the door. She better pray he never finds out anything shady about her.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
evelsteve
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I notice how a guy frets over some woman, and as soon as he finds another one, worthy of this time, he doesn't give a crap about the last one.
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That is the root of the problem isn't it? Not having another woman when it goes bad. It is NOT hard to find a replacement if you really focus and are brave. I can guarantee if my girl dumped me today I have the balls to approach every hot woman I see and make conversation. I won't stop doing it until a replacement is found. Don't care if I get rejected 800 times.evelsteve said:
evelsteve
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Exactly. That's the best way to resolve it.
mrgoodstuff
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Finding that other woman is the quickest way to ensure closure and bridge back over to positive feelings about yourself as a man.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.