"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does it raise interest by not replying back? (With 21-23yr Babes)

spiegel549

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Been spinning a lot of new recent YOUNGER plates and loving it. 21-23 year old babes. I am bit rusty with the technology like instagram (only social media I have), Facebook etc because I never used it lol.

Does it raise interest by not replying back?

Your smashing a chick already. She posted some sexy underwear photo on insta. I leave a comical flirty inside joke, she responds all flirty back with a question, I don't respond.

Usually I would engage and see where it goes. It feels weird doing that on a public social media app...I felt the urge not to respond lol.

Raise interest at all by doing that? (Rusty with this young babe meets social media crap) lol
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lozboss

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You are acting like a beta orbiter.

You shouldn't be commenting full stop. You are just providing them with the validation they crave and putting yourself in the same boat as the orbiters.

Leave the flirting to private text and whatsapp or better still in person.
 

mrgoodstuff

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Been spinning a lot of new recent YOUNGER plates and loving it. 21-23 year old babes. I am bit rusty with the technology like instagram (only social media I have), Facebook etc because I never used it lol.

Does it raise interest by not replying back?

Your smashing a chick already. She posted some sexy underwear photo on insta. I leave a comical flirty inside joke, she responds all flirty back with a question, I don't respond.

Usually I would engage and see where it goes. It feels weird doing that on a public social media app...I felt the urge not to respond lol.

Raise interest at all by doing that? (Rusty with this young babe meets social media crap) lol
If your already smashing just keep setting up the next meetings. Do things in your life that you like and that make you more attractive. Talking more will not help you out. Just keep setting up the next meeting for a pounding.
 

Donion Rings

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Man I cannot stand Instagram. I only have one to have one. And just as someone else already said Instagram is for the thirsty. I have seen so much thirst trap on Instagram that it makes me wonder how bad some of these chicks want their validation. And it gets pretty bad, too. So if you are already smashing said chick, then why bother with her Instagram anyways? If it was an LTR, then I can understand. Other than that, limit the contact.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mrgoodstuff

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Man I cannot stand Instagram. I only have one to have one. And just as someone else already said Instagram is for the thirsty. I have seen so much thirst trap on Instagram that it makes me wonder how bad some of these chicks want their validation. And it gets pretty bad, too. So if you are already smashing said chick, then why bother with her Instagram anyways? If it was an LTR, then I can understand. Other than that, limit the contact.
Thanks for pointing out if you are already pounding her regularly why are you trying to mess around with her IL? Why are you doing too much to any talking? Enjoy life and keep phuccing her as long as she lets you. That's all the talking you need to do to her.
 
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