"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Does it raise interest by not replying back? (With 21-23yr Babes)

spiegel549

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Been spinning a lot of new recent YOUNGER plates and loving it. 21-23 year old babes. I am bit rusty with the technology like instagram (only social media I have), Facebook etc because I never used it lol.

Does it raise interest by not replying back?

Your smashing a chick already. She posted some sexy underwear photo on insta. I leave a comical flirty inside joke, she responds all flirty back with a question, I don't respond.

Usually I would engage and see where it goes. It feels weird doing that on a public social media app...I felt the urge not to respond lol.

Raise interest at all by doing that? (Rusty with this young babe meets social media crap) lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lozboss

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You are acting like a beta orbiter.

You shouldn't be commenting full stop. You are just providing them with the validation they crave and putting yourself in the same boat as the orbiters.

Leave the flirting to private text and whatsapp or better still in person.
 

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Been spinning a lot of new recent YOUNGER plates and loving it. 21-23 year old babes. I am bit rusty with the technology like instagram (only social media I have), Facebook etc because I never used it lol.

Does it raise interest by not replying back?

Your smashing a chick already. She posted some sexy underwear photo on insta. I leave a comical flirty inside joke, she responds all flirty back with a question, I don't respond.

Usually I would engage and see where it goes. It feels weird doing that on a public social media app...I felt the urge not to respond lol.

Raise interest at all by doing that? (Rusty with this young babe meets social media crap) lol
If your already smashing just keep setting up the next meetings. Do things in your life that you like and that make you more attractive. Talking more will not help you out. Just keep setting up the next meeting for a pounding.
 

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Man I cannot stand Instagram. I only have one to have one. And just as someone else already said Instagram is for the thirsty. I have seen so much thirst trap on Instagram that it makes me wonder how bad some of these chicks want their validation. And it gets pretty bad, too. So if you are already smashing said chick, then why bother with her Instagram anyways? If it was an LTR, then I can understand. Other than that, limit the contact.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mrgoodstuff

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Man I cannot stand Instagram. I only have one to have one. And just as someone else already said Instagram is for the thirsty. I have seen so much thirst trap on Instagram that it makes me wonder how bad some of these chicks want their validation. And it gets pretty bad, too. So if you are already smashing said chick, then why bother with her Instagram anyways? If it was an LTR, then I can understand. Other than that, limit the contact.
Thanks for pointing out if you are already pounding her regularly why are you trying to mess around with her IL? Why are you doing too much to any talking? Enjoy life and keep phuccing her as long as she lets you. That's all the talking you need to do to her.
 
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