"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does it raise interest by not replying back? (With 21-23yr Babes)

spiegel549

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Been spinning a lot of new recent YOUNGER plates and loving it. 21-23 year old babes. I am bit rusty with the technology like instagram (only social media I have), Facebook etc because I never used it lol.

Does it raise interest by not replying back?

Your smashing a chick already. She posted some sexy underwear photo on insta. I leave a comical flirty inside joke, she responds all flirty back with a question, I don't respond.

Usually I would engage and see where it goes. It feels weird doing that on a public social media app...I felt the urge not to respond lol.

Raise interest at all by doing that? (Rusty with this young babe meets social media crap) lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lozboss

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You are acting like a beta orbiter.

You shouldn't be commenting full stop. You are just providing them with the validation they crave and putting yourself in the same boat as the orbiters.

Leave the flirting to private text and whatsapp or better still in person.
 

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Been spinning a lot of new recent YOUNGER plates and loving it. 21-23 year old babes. I am bit rusty with the technology like instagram (only social media I have), Facebook etc because I never used it lol.

Does it raise interest by not replying back?

Your smashing a chick already. She posted some sexy underwear photo on insta. I leave a comical flirty inside joke, she responds all flirty back with a question, I don't respond.

Usually I would engage and see where it goes. It feels weird doing that on a public social media app...I felt the urge not to respond lol.

Raise interest at all by doing that? (Rusty with this young babe meets social media crap) lol
If your already smashing just keep setting up the next meetings. Do things in your life that you like and that make you more attractive. Talking more will not help you out. Just keep setting up the next meeting for a pounding.
 

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Man I cannot stand Instagram. I only have one to have one. And just as someone else already said Instagram is for the thirsty. I have seen so much thirst trap on Instagram that it makes me wonder how bad some of these chicks want their validation. And it gets pretty bad, too. So if you are already smashing said chick, then why bother with her Instagram anyways? If it was an LTR, then I can understand. Other than that, limit the contact.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mrgoodstuff

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Man I cannot stand Instagram. I only have one to have one. And just as someone else already said Instagram is for the thirsty. I have seen so much thirst trap on Instagram that it makes me wonder how bad some of these chicks want their validation. And it gets pretty bad, too. So if you are already smashing said chick, then why bother with her Instagram anyways? If it was an LTR, then I can understand. Other than that, limit the contact.
Thanks for pointing out if you are already pounding her regularly why are you trying to mess around with her IL? Why are you doing too much to any talking? Enjoy life and keep phuccing her as long as she lets you. That's all the talking you need to do to her.
 
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