"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Does it bother you when people stare at you when you talking to a chick?

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It some time does bother me, I noticed people staring at me like I am a popular tv show, I feel like telling them to mind their own biz.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Which people? The girl's friends? They HAVE to look.

Your friends? They HAVE to look.

Strangers? They probably either like the girl or you so they HAVE to look.
 
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Just dont let it bother you bro, guys will obviously watch you because they didn't have the kahunas to approach the cute chick that you are talking to. They want to see you fail. Don't let it phase you. Even if you get shot down by the chick at least you tried man...they obviously respect you but want to watch the alpha male at work :D

And chicks are gonna watch too just because they want to see them some drama. No big. It helps your SP with them anyways because they saw you were man enough to talk to a chick anyways.
 
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ignore the other people. pretend like you know her already. they just stare cause you had the balls to approach. a lot of guys cant.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Here the best advice you'll ever get, stop giving a ****!.
 
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Stéphane said:
Here the best advice you'll ever get, stop giving a ****!.
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For real. Why pay that much attention to other people while having a conversation?
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
For real. Why pay that much attention to other people while having a conversation?
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Cuz I see their big heads looking at me like am a tv show and it bothers me man!:eek:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Damn, insecurity is a mother... Most guys can't think of a way to get any attention while out. :cool:
 
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I love succeeding in closing whenever people are watching me.

They get the arrogant out-tongue/smile whenever it happens.
 
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The solution to this problem is quite simple. Talk to 5's and under or fat chicks.
 
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It doesn't bother me, but the amogs, the guys who butt in do. I'll never fight over a dame, but some guys Really got it coming to them, and are transparently jealous and flat out Rude trying to TAKE (physically) what's mine to begin with. But I'll let a prospective woman go if the dude thinks he can have her. I'm not fightin over a "potential" lay with a hot broad. Now if the dude is trying to show me up just to **** with me then it might be time to grab the cue ball or ashtray.
 
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I was always of the opinion that audiences exist because right at that moment your situation is more interesting than theirs. I just try to give them a performance that doesnt involve a blow-out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That would be my biggest pet peeve. It doesn't bother me when I am in public and it is people I don't know, only at my college since it has a small social scene and so many people (guys and girls) have nothing better to do then start drama and rumors. I learned that the hard way.
 
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Skepsis said:
Which people? The girl's friends? They HAVE to look.

Your friends? They HAVE to look.

Strangers? They probably either like the girl or you so they HAVE to look.
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Line 1: 100% true. c**kblock or not? Deal or no deal? They can be the deciding factor. Don't completely ignore them unless you have enough trust.

Line 2. 100% true. Act like the motherf**kers ain't there. It's when you keep acting like they're nags you f**k up.

Line 3. It's the girl they like, unless you're rich or famous. Act like they aren't there.

The point is, DON'T LET THIS SH*T BRING YOU DOWN! You can do very well if you don't over analyze what they're saying.:up:
 
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Maximus Rex said:
The solution to this problem is quite simple. Talk to 5's and under or fat chicks.
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Back to the drawing board for you! This sh*t ain't the cure-all medicine!

Lower your standards to avoid your problems? You are grounded mister!

I'd go with the cute (7-8) Far less likely to get turned down.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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