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Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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does hitting your abs make them harder

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i got the inspiration for this somewhat from the knuckle pushup post. if you hit your abs when they are tight will they get really hard?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's feasible but the results would be nearly negligable. You'll do wonders more with a decent cardio program, a weekly ab routine, and doing vacuums.
 

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Originally posted by Metaphor
It's feasible but the results would be nearly negligable. You'll do wonders more with a decent cardio program, a weekly ab routine, and doing vacuums.
Doing vaccums? What does that mean?
 

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how would you do vaccums. would you do it in your ab routine or what
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

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Originally posted by Lt dan
how would you do vaccums. would you do it in your ab routine or what
It's a flexing routine. Just suck your stomach in until you see your rib well.
 

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You exhale as much air as humanly possible then suck in your abs and hold for ten seconds with the tighest contraction you can manage.
 

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Striking the abs will certainly help to condition them to receive such an impact partly by developing the fascia surrounding the muscles - useful for boxers and marshall artists for example. However, such an approach will not lend itself to the attainment of a ripped midsection - that's down to other factors such as diet, cardio and ab structure ie genetics.
 

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ive got the six pack im just looking for it to get rock hard
 

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if you want it hard have someone punch it, we do it regularly in karate and youll be surprised how much impact it you can take in the stomach after some time.
For advanced user try doing the solar plexus
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't believe it... that's like saying punching walls make your fist stronger..
 

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Originally posted by KiLLer
I don't believe it... that's like saying punching walls make your fist stronger..
Maybe it will? Try it , let us know. ;o)
 

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actually punching walls does make ur fist stronger, i have dented iron fire doors with my hands without pain because i punch so many things.

I know its dumb and barbaric but its fun so go to hell.
 

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Yes, hitting things can make your hands harder, but is the possibility of ****ing up your knuckles worth it? What I'd like to know is the one guy said try hitting in the solar plexus. How is that going to help? The area has no protection, so I don't see how it could get any harder.
 

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Dude, a good shot to the solar plexus will kill you. Not the best suggestion.



Originally posted by ultrashogun
if you want it hard have someone punch it, we do it regularly in karate and youll be surprised how much impact it you can take in the stomach after some time.
For advanced user try doing the solar plexus
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey I dunno the science of it, for all I know it could just be a placebo effect, but I can take hard strickes to my stomach und plexus areas since doing what I discribed.

jakethesnake:

solarplexus hits CAN be lethal, im not suggesting that you ram iron bars in there, just light punches, then get stronger over time.
 
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