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Does her showing you on social media mean she;s proud of you?

lizardking82

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I have had this thought stir up my mind from time to time. I see certain couples on social media where the girl shows her boyfriend often or once in a while, sometimes intimate moments, sometimes not.

Does it mean a woman is proud of her partner when she shows him on social media, kind of like a "look what I got here" thing, or you find this unrelated to how proud and valuing she really is?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Billtx49

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Proud of, has intense feelings for, or he is a very important part of her life…
Take your pick. Three is a winner…
Only three months up on the pic during 5 years of being with you is a loser.
Watch her actions.
 
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Yeah she's likely into you and showing you off a bit. It's a good thing.
 

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Its like a wedding ring......trying to put on a show to validate herself amongst her friends.
 

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Proud of, has intense feelings for, or he is a very important part of her life…
Take your pick. Three is a winner…
Only three months up on the pic during 5 years of being with you is a loser.
Watch her actions.
Disagree. IME #1 reason girls post you on SM is as a validation set piece.
#2 is to make her ex/guy who wouldn't commit jealous--Look, this guy comitted to me.
#3 Is to throw her bf off the trail for potential infidelity or appeal to his ego to manipulate him.

Reformed slvts post their boyfriends more on SM (girls with high SMV but low RMV)--part of their image reform, plus guys don't readily offer their commitment so it's an event. Personally, if I meet a girl with a bf, the more she posts about him the better my chances are; the ones in the strongest relationships usually don't have the need to advertise it a ton (it's fulfilling for them in and of itself).
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've found that any girl that's had me with her alone in her profile picture has normally been into me.
 

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Women are extremelly social creatures so i'm betting on Yes.
Probably showing off the prize, or rubbing the guy into other girl's faces, something like that.
 

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I tend to personally agree with @fastlife here, in fact. I think in most cases, it is just them trying to show off their prize. Never liked it when they do it also because it reduces the guy;s chances of dealing with other girls.
 

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Disagree. IME #1 reason girls post you on SM is as a validation set piece.
#2 is to make her ex/guy who wouldn't commit jealous--Look, this guy comitted to me.
#3 Is to throw her bf off the trail for potential infidelity or appeal to his ego to manipulate him.

Reformed slvts post their boyfriends more on SM (girls with high SMV but low RMV)--part of their image reform, plus guys don't readily offer their commitment so it's an event. Personally, if I meet a girl with a bf, the more she posts about him the better my chances are; the ones in the strongest relationships usually don't have the need to advertise it a ton (it's fulfilling for them in and of itself).
Could be...could be showing him off and really like the guy. Every situation is different
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Some female comedian in some part of some routine on some video I saw described the "taking the man home to meet mom" scenario as:

"Hey! Look what I caught!"

So, yeah, maybe she's proud, but not the way most guys like to think.
 
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