"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does her showing you on social media mean she;s proud of you?

lizardking82

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I have had this thought stir up my mind from time to time. I see certain couples on social media where the girl shows her boyfriend often or once in a while, sometimes intimate moments, sometimes not.

Does it mean a woman is proud of her partner when she shows him on social media, kind of like a "look what I got here" thing, or you find this unrelated to how proud and valuing she really is?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Billtx49

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Proud of, has intense feelings for, or he is a very important part of her life…
Take your pick. Three is a winner…
Only three months up on the pic during 5 years of being with you is a loser.
Watch her actions.
 
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Yeah she's likely into you and showing you off a bit. It's a good thing.
 

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Its like a wedding ring......trying to put on a show to validate herself amongst her friends.
 

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Proud of, has intense feelings for, or he is a very important part of her life…
Take your pick. Three is a winner…
Only three months up on the pic during 5 years of being with you is a loser.
Watch her actions.
Disagree. IME #1 reason girls post you on SM is as a validation set piece.
#2 is to make her ex/guy who wouldn't commit jealous--Look, this guy comitted to me.
#3 Is to throw her bf off the trail for potential infidelity or appeal to his ego to manipulate him.

Reformed slvts post their boyfriends more on SM (girls with high SMV but low RMV)--part of their image reform, plus guys don't readily offer their commitment so it's an event. Personally, if I meet a girl with a bf, the more she posts about him the better my chances are; the ones in the strongest relationships usually don't have the need to advertise it a ton (it's fulfilling for them in and of itself).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've found that any girl that's had me with her alone in her profile picture has normally been into me.
 

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Women are extremelly social creatures so i'm betting on Yes.
Probably showing off the prize, or rubbing the guy into other girl's faces, something like that.
 

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I tend to personally agree with @fastlife here, in fact. I think in most cases, it is just them trying to show off their prize. Never liked it when they do it also because it reduces the guy;s chances of dealing with other girls.
 

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Disagree. IME #1 reason girls post you on SM is as a validation set piece.
#2 is to make her ex/guy who wouldn't commit jealous--Look, this guy comitted to me.
#3 Is to throw her bf off the trail for potential infidelity or appeal to his ego to manipulate him.

Reformed slvts post their boyfriends more on SM (girls with high SMV but low RMV)--part of their image reform, plus guys don't readily offer their commitment so it's an event. Personally, if I meet a girl with a bf, the more she posts about him the better my chances are; the ones in the strongest relationships usually don't have the need to advertise it a ton (it's fulfilling for them in and of itself).
Could be...could be showing him off and really like the guy. Every situation is different
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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taiyuu_otoko

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Some female comedian in some part of some routine on some video I saw described the "taking the man home to meet mom" scenario as:

"Hey! Look what I caught!"

So, yeah, maybe she's proud, but not the way most guys like to think.
 
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