"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Does height matter?

aolDJ

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I was reading this thread and it got me wondering whether some girls won't go with a guy who's not that tall (I'm 5'7 for instance). I'm not saying a guy who's less than 5'5, but just someone average like 5'7. I don't think hbs will usually care about this if you show confidence, but some might. What do you think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tomatoes

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I generally go for girls smaller than me. Talking with my female friend contingent they agree with this. Girls dont normally like being with a guy shorter than them.....Girls average hight is smaller than blokes anyways. Hieght isnt that important. I would always game girls my hight or smaller thow.
 

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I'm 6'3" and I can definitely say that being tall helps.

No one has perfect looks though. We all have our inadequacies that help level the playing field. Strengths and weaknesses. You've got to do the best you can with what you've got.
 

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Nausicaa said:
I'm 6'3" and I can definitely say that being tall helps.

No one has perfect looks though. We all have our inadequacies that help level the playing field. Strengths and weaknesses. You've got to do the best you can with what you've got.
I'm 6'3" also and yes it does help. On the playersupreme show there apparently is a chap who is 4'9" on a recent podcast. Now if your 4'9 inches this will hinder your ability to chase 6 foot blonds as my buddy stated.

He also stated once that one of his sons is 5'6" and has no problem getting women. As well as talking about his cousin who is 5'5" and a regular pimp on yesterdays show.

One thing that is important is to stay within a certain height frame. Going for girls shorter than you is a good idea.
 

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Height is an excuse. Generally speaking, girls go for taller guys, but I've often times seen a shorter guy with a taller girl. It's all about what YOU want.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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