"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does height matter?

aolDJ

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I was reading this thread and it got me wondering whether some girls won't go with a guy who's not that tall (I'm 5'7 for instance). I'm not saying a guy who's less than 5'5, but just someone average like 5'7. I don't think hbs will usually care about this if you show confidence, but some might. What do you think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tomatoes

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I generally go for girls smaller than me. Talking with my female friend contingent they agree with this. Girls dont normally like being with a guy shorter than them.....Girls average hight is smaller than blokes anyways. Hieght isnt that important. I would always game girls my hight or smaller thow.
 

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I'm 6'3" and I can definitely say that being tall helps.

No one has perfect looks though. We all have our inadequacies that help level the playing field. Strengths and weaknesses. You've got to do the best you can with what you've got.
 

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Nausicaa said:
I'm 6'3" and I can definitely say that being tall helps.

No one has perfect looks though. We all have our inadequacies that help level the playing field. Strengths and weaknesses. You've got to do the best you can with what you've got.
I'm 6'3" also and yes it does help. On the playersupreme show there apparently is a chap who is 4'9" on a recent podcast. Now if your 4'9 inches this will hinder your ability to chase 6 foot blonds as my buddy stated.

He also stated once that one of his sons is 5'6" and has no problem getting women. As well as talking about his cousin who is 5'5" and a regular pimp on yesterdays show.

One thing that is important is to stay within a certain height frame. Going for girls shorter than you is a good idea.
 

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Height is an excuse. Generally speaking, girls go for taller guys, but I've often times seen a shorter guy with a taller girl. It's all about what YOU want.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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