"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does height matter?

aolDJ

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I was reading this thread and it got me wondering whether some girls won't go with a guy who's not that tall (I'm 5'7 for instance). I'm not saying a guy who's less than 5'5, but just someone average like 5'7. I don't think hbs will usually care about this if you show confidence, but some might. What do you think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tomatoes

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I generally go for girls smaller than me. Talking with my female friend contingent they agree with this. Girls dont normally like being with a guy shorter than them.....Girls average hight is smaller than blokes anyways. Hieght isnt that important. I would always game girls my hight or smaller thow.
 

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I'm 6'3" and I can definitely say that being tall helps.

No one has perfect looks though. We all have our inadequacies that help level the playing field. Strengths and weaknesses. You've got to do the best you can with what you've got.
 

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Nausicaa said:
I'm 6'3" and I can definitely say that being tall helps.

No one has perfect looks though. We all have our inadequacies that help level the playing field. Strengths and weaknesses. You've got to do the best you can with what you've got.
I'm 6'3" also and yes it does help. On the playersupreme show there apparently is a chap who is 4'9" on a recent podcast. Now if your 4'9 inches this will hinder your ability to chase 6 foot blonds as my buddy stated.

He also stated once that one of his sons is 5'6" and has no problem getting women. As well as talking about his cousin who is 5'5" and a regular pimp on yesterdays show.

One thing that is important is to stay within a certain height frame. Going for girls shorter than you is a good idea.
 

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Height is an excuse. Generally speaking, girls go for taller guys, but I've often times seen a shorter guy with a taller girl. It's all about what YOU want.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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