Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Does height matter?

aolDJ

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I was reading this thread and it got me wondering whether some girls won't go with a guy who's not that tall (I'm 5'7 for instance). I'm not saying a guy who's less than 5'5, but just someone average like 5'7. I don't think hbs will usually care about this if you show confidence, but some might. What do you think?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Tomatoes

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I generally go for girls smaller than me. Talking with my female friend contingent they agree with this. Girls dont normally like being with a guy shorter than them.....Girls average hight is smaller than blokes anyways. Hieght isnt that important. I would always game girls my hight or smaller thow.
 

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I'm 6'3" and I can definitely say that being tall helps.

No one has perfect looks though. We all have our inadequacies that help level the playing field. Strengths and weaknesses. You've got to do the best you can with what you've got.
 

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Nausicaa said:
I'm 6'3" and I can definitely say that being tall helps.

No one has perfect looks though. We all have our inadequacies that help level the playing field. Strengths and weaknesses. You've got to do the best you can with what you've got.
I'm 6'3" also and yes it does help. On the playersupreme show there apparently is a chap who is 4'9" on a recent podcast. Now if your 4'9 inches this will hinder your ability to chase 6 foot blonds as my buddy stated.

He also stated once that one of his sons is 5'6" and has no problem getting women. As well as talking about his cousin who is 5'5" and a regular pimp on yesterdays show.

One thing that is important is to stay within a certain height frame. Going for girls shorter than you is a good idea.
 

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Height is an excuse. Generally speaking, girls go for taller guys, but I've often times seen a shorter guy with a taller girl. It's all about what YOU want.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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