"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Does going through certain tragedies and difficulties in life makes you like Spicy Food?

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Does going through certain tragedies and difficulties in life makes you like Spicy food? I know it happened with me, when I got back to the states, my mom made salmon soup and I decided to eat with Jalapeno peppers. Then today, I had tacos for dinner, decided to eat it with spicy sauce salsa. What about you guys?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Huh? This is just really fvcking weird to put this type of connection together.

I mean, are we going to start taking 2 random things that have nothing to do with each other now and start trying to connect them with other things?

Like, do I spend more on groceries if I drive more than 50 miles a week?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Huh? This is just really fvcking weird to put this type of connection together.

I mean, are we going to start taking 2 random things that have nothing to do with each other now and start trying to connect them with other things?

Like, do I spend more on groceries if I drive more than 50 miles a week?
Exactly. What possible good can come from ignorance about other people, and what is there to learn from it?

OP is a lost cause, and there is enough evidence in his threads to prove he is entirely blind to how people actually work. Trying to find any logic in his posts is a complete waste of time.
 

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Maybe if you're in a life or death situation, and eating spicy food saves you might you make a connection.

Like, for example, if you're swimming in the ocean, and you notice a shark's been tailing you for a while.

You suspect he wants to eat you.

Luckily, you have in your hip pocket a bottle of extra hot tobasco sauce.

So you gulp it down just as the shark closes in for the kill.

You let loose a trail of extra spicy diarrhea right in the shark's eye, causing it to re-think it's plans.

Now the connection has been cemented into your subconscious.

Whenever you get into a tough situation (like you're starting a conversation with an attractive woman) you'll suddenly get an urge to drink some hot sauce and sh*t out some hot love.
 

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Exactly. What possible good can come from ignorance about other people, and what is there to learn from it?

OP is a lost cause, and there is enough evidence in his threads to prove he is entirely blind to how people actually work. Trying to find any logic in his posts is a complete waste of time.
I’ve lived enough years to study all sorts of people from all backgrounds starting from my years in The Military and so forth. One of the things I preach in this site is how to gain inner peace and the true essence of being a Man or DJ- be genuinely you, have a purpose and don’t ever live your life for people and especially a woman’s existence or approval. Now being a Retired Air Force Veteran who lives off my pension, social security and part of the revenue off my parent’s hotel, I don’t need to work a day in my life again, I consider that aspect of my life blessed because I have a lot of time on my hands to invest my money and select a good wife to raise a family abroad in a country where my I can stretch my dollar. I appreciate you guy’s presence and advise that would be crucial in attracting and selecting a quality woman. I just want to learn as much as I can. Thanks, I humbly acknowledge that I don’t know everything, but knowledgeable about the pursuit of inner peace and God Consciousness and will lend an ear to anyone here who needs to talk something out, having issues about something and sooth some spirits. :)
 

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Tragedies and difficulties give you ulcers and indigestion
 
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