"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Does Getting back with an Ex ever yield a positive relationship?

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So, my ex has finally started to cave from no contact. badly. She thinks she loves me and all this other stuff. Its clear to me this is dangerous territory. I simply dont think it will work out a second time around and have no plans wasting my time on a failed relationship.

On the other hand, it was my favorite LTR ever. I just dont think its realistically going to be a positive experience doing it again, even if i make her work super hard for it.

Plan is currently to plate her until the plate breaks or something happens
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She's telling you a half-truth. She does indeed think she loves you, but the reason is because you have now proven that you have a backbone by keeping NC up on her. So she respects you because you don't take her back. Guess what's gonna happen when you do?
 
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She's telling you a half-truth. She does indeed think she loves you, but the reason is because you have now proven that you have a backbone by keeping NC up on her. So she respects you because you don't take her back. Guess what's gonna happen when you do?
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That's exactly what I'm thinking dude. it's a huge catch-22.
 
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TRPShill said:
That's exactly what I'm thinking dude. it's a huge catch-22.
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Only if you value a couple nights of pvssy more than the respect you've created for yourself. I bet she won't even put in some birth control so you can fvck her raw. Get some new girls and forget her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So what's your question?
 
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If you f*ck her, you will catch feelings. She will keep throwing pu$$y at you, get you hooked and then withdraw it.

You will become a love stricken puppy again ready to do her bidding. Just don't get involved with her at all. Simple.

Don't fool yourself into thinking you can have sex multiple times with her without catching feelings.
 
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Mauser96 said:
The issues that caused the breakup....are they still there? If so, I wouldn't bother.
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I dumped her then tried to get back together with her. Its my fault we broke up but hers that we didnt reconcile.
 
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El Payaso said:
If you f*ck her, you will catch feelings. She will keep throwing pu$$y at you, get you hooked and then withdraw it.

You will become a love stricken puppy again ready to do her bidding. Just don't get involved with her at all. Simple.

Don't fool yourself into thinking you can have sex multiple times with her without catching feelings.
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This is a possibility I've considered. I think I could handle it. I've ****ed a few of my exes before without issue.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TRPShill said:
I dumped her then tried to get back together with her. Its my fault we broke up but hers that we didnt reconcile.
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This sounds like a little different scenario. You dumped her and from the sounds of it she didn't just allow you back (she had enough self esteem/value), and she held you accountable. She then reconsidered and you guys can be somewhat on an equal playing field without animosity (she rejected you and you rejected her). This is more balanced, especially since you initially rejected her and not the straight someone got dumped scenario, so it could work if she is sincere since when she was in the relationship she necessarily didn't want out.
 
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You THINK you can handle it?
Do you remember why you are talking on this very forum?

You could also try to learn the power of being able to refuse her and giving her to another guy, thanking him for taking care of her, without that affecting you. THAT will actually make you grow.

And that will create some form of respect and perhaps she will not end up being another spoiled b*tch and she will then look for another guy who will be as strong and respectful as you were.

Doing that you will also stay high on her high score list for a very long time.
 
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Stupid is as stupid does....

You dumped her....then tried to get back together with her.....

So you lost interest.....and then changed your mind......

Why did you dump her? Why did you change your mind?

She rejected your overtures of reconciliation and now she's coming back around to
the idea.

Do you know that many people who get dumped.....agree to a reconciliation just for the opportunity
to then be the dumper. Yeah they get back just to dump your azz.....
 
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