Ringleader41
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Like after meeting her.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Does getting a girl's number mean anything
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
SgtSplacker
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Not at all. A girl can give you her number and never pick up the phone even the same day.
nismo-4
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No.
Sometimes girls give out their numbers to get guys away from them and don't answer the phone. And the girl gets an ego boost.
It meant something in the 80's and 90's, but not now. You need to set up a date on the spot or go for the lay. Kiss closes are better. You need to have some spark of interest there. And she has to be attracted to you. That's my ruling.
Case closed.
Sometimes girls give out their numbers to get guys away from them and don't answer the phone. And the girl gets an ego boost.
It meant something in the 80's and 90's, but not now. You need to set up a date on the spot or go for the lay. Kiss closes are better. You need to have some spark of interest there. And she has to be attracted to you. That's my ruling.
Case closed.
BlackMack177
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I really doesn't mean anything. Girls give out numbers all the time. Why that is has already been said above, but if you want to gauge a girl's interested, set up a date and see if she show's up and then go from there.
Basically, if a female stops or ignores you at any point during the process, then she is not that down for you
My philosophy is that nothing means sh1t until she is naked in my bed. And even then, nothing is 100% certain
Basically, if a female stops or ignores you at any point during the process, then she is not that down for you
My philosophy is that nothing means sh1t until she is naked in my bed. And even then, nothing is 100% certain
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
dutchmaster
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Means jack ****.. Can even mean shes uninterested just wants you to go away