Ringleader41
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Like after meeting her.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Does getting a girl's number mean anything
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
SgtSplacker
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Not at all. A girl can give you her number and never pick up the phone even the same day.
nismo-4
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No.
Sometimes girls give out their numbers to get guys away from them and don't answer the phone. And the girl gets an ego boost.
It meant something in the 80's and 90's, but not now. You need to set up a date on the spot or go for the lay. Kiss closes are better. You need to have some spark of interest there. And she has to be attracted to you. That's my ruling.
Case closed.
Sometimes girls give out their numbers to get guys away from them and don't answer the phone. And the girl gets an ego boost.
It meant something in the 80's and 90's, but not now. You need to set up a date on the spot or go for the lay. Kiss closes are better. You need to have some spark of interest there. And she has to be attracted to you. That's my ruling.
Case closed.
BlackMack177
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I really doesn't mean anything. Girls give out numbers all the time. Why that is has already been said above, but if you want to gauge a girl's interested, set up a date and see if she show's up and then go from there.
Basically, if a female stops or ignores you at any point during the process, then she is not that down for you
My philosophy is that nothing means sh1t until she is naked in my bed. And even then, nothing is 100% certain
Basically, if a female stops or ignores you at any point during the process, then she is not that down for you
My philosophy is that nothing means sh1t until she is naked in my bed. And even then, nothing is 100% certain
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
dutchmaster
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Means jack ****.. Can even mean shes uninterested just wants you to go away