Ringleader41
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Like after meeting her.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Does getting a girl's number mean anything
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
SgtSplacker
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Not at all. A girl can give you her number and never pick up the phone even the same day.
nismo-4
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No.
Sometimes girls give out their numbers to get guys away from them and don't answer the phone. And the girl gets an ego boost.
It meant something in the 80's and 90's, but not now. You need to set up a date on the spot or go for the lay. Kiss closes are better. You need to have some spark of interest there. And she has to be attracted to you. That's my ruling.
Case closed.
Sometimes girls give out their numbers to get guys away from them and don't answer the phone. And the girl gets an ego boost.
It meant something in the 80's and 90's, but not now. You need to set up a date on the spot or go for the lay. Kiss closes are better. You need to have some spark of interest there. And she has to be attracted to you. That's my ruling.
Case closed.
BlackMack177
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I really doesn't mean anything. Girls give out numbers all the time. Why that is has already been said above, but if you want to gauge a girl's interested, set up a date and see if she show's up and then go from there.
Basically, if a female stops or ignores you at any point during the process, then she is not that down for you
My philosophy is that nothing means sh1t until she is naked in my bed. And even then, nothing is 100% certain
Basically, if a female stops or ignores you at any point during the process, then she is not that down for you
My philosophy is that nothing means sh1t until she is naked in my bed. And even then, nothing is 100% certain
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
dutchmaster
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Means jack ****.. Can even mean shes uninterested just wants you to go away