Ringleader41
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Like after meeting her.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Does getting a girl's number mean anything
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
SgtSplacker
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Not at all. A girl can give you her number and never pick up the phone even the same day.
nismo-4
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No.
Sometimes girls give out their numbers to get guys away from them and don't answer the phone. And the girl gets an ego boost.
It meant something in the 80's and 90's, but not now. You need to set up a date on the spot or go for the lay. Kiss closes are better. You need to have some spark of interest there. And she has to be attracted to you. That's my ruling.
Case closed.
Sometimes girls give out their numbers to get guys away from them and don't answer the phone. And the girl gets an ego boost.
It meant something in the 80's and 90's, but not now. You need to set up a date on the spot or go for the lay. Kiss closes are better. You need to have some spark of interest there. And she has to be attracted to you. That's my ruling.
Case closed.
BlackMack177
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I really doesn't mean anything. Girls give out numbers all the time. Why that is has already been said above, but if you want to gauge a girl's interested, set up a date and see if she show's up and then go from there.
Basically, if a female stops or ignores you at any point during the process, then she is not that down for you
My philosophy is that nothing means sh1t until she is naked in my bed. And even then, nothing is 100% certain
Basically, if a female stops or ignores you at any point during the process, then she is not that down for you
My philosophy is that nothing means sh1t until she is naked in my bed. And even then, nothing is 100% certain
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dutchmaster
Senior Don Juan
Means jack ****.. Can even mean shes uninterested just wants you to go away