"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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does anyone see picking up drunk girls as too easy?

MascaraSnake

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I stopped for a stiff drink after class other day, and this extremely lubed-up girl was practically hanging off me when we talked. It was fun giving her backhanded compliments (she was eating it up), but when she had to get going I really didn't try all that hard to get her number because I felt kinda...well...weird about it.

Might have been a good thing too; the bartender told me that she stops in there a LOT on weeknights to get sh1tfaced. I don't know if it's just me, but I see picking up a drunk girl as too easy...drunk to me equals loose, and I've found that gaming a loose girl isn't particularly challenging or rewarding since their reputations tend to not be the best. Anyone else feel this way?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Effington

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I wouldn't ever say "too easy", but women are definitely more flirtacious and suggestive when they're tipsy; their inhibitions are lowered.

Back in the day I used to avoid the drunk girls because I thought I was taking advantage of them, but now realize that's just silly. Unless they are so clearly drunk that they're a danger to themselves, I wouldn't worry about it. People are typically more brutally honest when they're drunk...
 

Dragon

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Yeah, and remember that girls are emotional creatures, so if you get her number now when she's drunk and try to call her the next day, she'll be like "Who the f is this?"
 

decades

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you have to weigh the easy lay against cleaning up the vomit on your bed. it's a real dilemma.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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guywhoneedshelp

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I kissed a drunk girllll

why do I do

these things I do to myself

I kissed a drunk girlllll

and I swear I could of been

with anybody else...

I dunno man but every time I get with a drunk chick I tend to take a long shower afterward, not feeling too accomplished. But hey, sometimes you're looking' for something other than your hand.
 
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