"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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does anyone see picking up drunk girls as too easy?

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MascaraSnake

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I stopped for a stiff drink after class other day, and this extremely lubed-up girl was practically hanging off me when we talked. It was fun giving her backhanded compliments (she was eating it up), but when she had to get going I really didn't try all that hard to get her number because I felt kinda...well...weird about it.

Might have been a good thing too; the bartender told me that she stops in there a LOT on weeknights to get sh1tfaced. I don't know if it's just me, but I see picking up a drunk girl as too easy...drunk to me equals loose, and I've found that gaming a loose girl isn't particularly challenging or rewarding since their reputations tend to not be the best. Anyone else feel this way?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Effington

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I wouldn't ever say "too easy", but women are definitely more flirtacious and suggestive when they're tipsy; their inhibitions are lowered.

Back in the day I used to avoid the drunk girls because I thought I was taking advantage of them, but now realize that's just silly. Unless they are so clearly drunk that they're a danger to themselves, I wouldn't worry about it. People are typically more brutally honest when they're drunk...
 
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Yeah, and remember that girls are emotional creatures, so if you get her number now when she's drunk and try to call her the next day, she'll be like "Who the f is this?"
 
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you have to weigh the easy lay against cleaning up the vomit on your bed. it's a real dilemma.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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guywhoneedshelp

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I kissed a drunk girllll

why do I do

these things I do to myself

I kissed a drunk girlllll

and I swear I could of been

with anybody else...

I dunno man but every time I get with a drunk chick I tend to take a long shower afterward, not feeling too accomplished. But hey, sometimes you're looking' for something other than your hand.
 
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