"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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does anyone see picking up drunk girls as too easy?

MascaraSnake

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I stopped for a stiff drink after class other day, and this extremely lubed-up girl was practically hanging off me when we talked. It was fun giving her backhanded compliments (she was eating it up), but when she had to get going I really didn't try all that hard to get her number because I felt kinda...well...weird about it.

Might have been a good thing too; the bartender told me that she stops in there a LOT on weeknights to get sh1tfaced. I don't know if it's just me, but I see picking up a drunk girl as too easy...drunk to me equals loose, and I've found that gaming a loose girl isn't particularly challenging or rewarding since their reputations tend to not be the best. Anyone else feel this way?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Effington

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I wouldn't ever say "too easy", but women are definitely more flirtacious and suggestive when they're tipsy; their inhibitions are lowered.

Back in the day I used to avoid the drunk girls because I thought I was taking advantage of them, but now realize that's just silly. Unless they are so clearly drunk that they're a danger to themselves, I wouldn't worry about it. People are typically more brutally honest when they're drunk...
 

Dragon

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Yeah, and remember that girls are emotional creatures, so if you get her number now when she's drunk and try to call her the next day, she'll be like "Who the f is this?"
 

decades

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you have to weigh the easy lay against cleaning up the vomit on your bed. it's a real dilemma.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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guywhoneedshelp

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I kissed a drunk girllll

why do I do

these things I do to myself

I kissed a drunk girlllll

and I swear I could of been

with anybody else...

I dunno man but every time I get with a drunk chick I tend to take a long shower afterward, not feeling too accomplished. But hey, sometimes you're looking' for something other than your hand.
 
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